“Sometimes I wish you are still a baby and I still drive you here & there…
Sometimes I think that while I closed my eyes to sleep, I missed the times I should have been spending with you…
I enjoyed you growing, counted the candles with you but,
I wish I was told the rule of life, that kids have to grow and follow their own dreams… Cherish every moment, faster than you think, babies become young adult!
I Admire you my love; with my blessings and God’s”
#MOI to my loved ones
God bless yours
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
Both available: Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers: Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel? Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
“Children have difficulty letting go of their parents at a young age,
while parents struggle not to let go of their children at older age!”
#MOI Life and the mystery of parenthood
Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
nothing breaks one’s happiness but heartbreaks inside the comfort of your home!
It is so true, when people say, the happiness of a person expands when we have children, we become like hawks watching over them grow and like mother gorillas protecting them… we build a nest with high fence hoping it won’t be invaded by strangers but human nature beat all expectations, and like the flow of any stream, they will go through life with tears and giggles! Their giggles puts us at ease but their tears breaks our heart, and sadly, at times we cannot stand in between. We raise them to be solid, but we cannot the flow of the days is stronger! We push them to spread their wings, but we forget they need to lose some feathers to grow stronger and spread wider! We wipe their tears, forgetting that those tears will make them learn about life! We protect them but they need to learn to stand alone, while reassuring them that they have nest to come back to! We, we, we, but they are children of this world, and life has to take its course!
Dear fathers, mothers, brothers, and sisters, remember that any tear can be picked up, but remember that the tear you cause to your child can scar them for eternity!
“Yesterday, a child told me, I prefer to eat alone in class!
I looked at the child and said, how about you join me on a picnic in the school small grass area, as I, myself, would like some quiet time during break.
I did not ask why, I thought he will eventually speak up when comfortable…
I did not ask what do you have for lunch, thinking what if that was the reason behind wanting to be alone…
I did not force any other students to join, I was sure, once they see us, they will join…
We got artistic material and went to the grass area, others started crawling once they saw us, out of curiosity…
I opened a blanket on the grass, where I put some snacks on, then asked the students whether they like to join in by placing their own…
& we started putting together paper kites…
Before the end of the break, all children had eaten, and all were part of the kite group, playing, laughing, and talking to each other…”
#MOI we all have a role, actions speak louder than words, I acted and not investigated, empathy is the secret, try to understand!
“Is your child ready for school?
Believe it or not, this is an anxious phase for every child; and getting our children ready is by far more difficult than we believe.
I agree with the statement saying <<kids need to outgrow their difficulties>> but let me remind you of the adult first day of work… not a piece of cake!
Between the outfit, hairstyle, physical changes for those returning to school, the academic abilities, the physical and language challenges, the friendships, the new comers fit in concerns, puberty changes… children, whether we like to admit it or not, would have to face the my friends or no friends, the loud and outspoken, the bullies, the memories and past experience, and would have to find a way to prove themselves.
Sadly, this is school, and not all are equipped, whether parents, children, and/or educators, to help properly.
I included children in the help part, as I believe that children play a major role in the comfort of others in their community, they can make it or break it!
Advise, and would like to hear your stories, do not ignore any withdrawal symptoms you sense, this could be the beginning of a series of emotional, physical, and academic improvement.
Yes, our child could be the victim, bully, or sadly a bystander!
As every member of any community, this member must be equipped with values that enable him/her to be the change in their community, to make a change without fear, to be a leader and an ambassador of peace.
I believe that change will start with one person, it is contagious, but the support mechanism is evidential to move it forward.
Dear colleagues in the process, join me to make this world a better place for our children, state your opinion, share a story, share your experience, and feel free to get the help of Abigail, the main character in MOMMY, I AM A PACER!.”
#MOI The future, our children are part of it!
Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“Tears of a child and the child with hidden tears… (Read through and Repost)
Let me share a fact with you, the tears you see as a parent are a burst after a long time concern in the mind of that little child.
No matter how old, or the size of that child, the concern, he or she lives when they are alone, is bigger and stronger than the mind of that child or what one older and bigger in size could handle.
Bullying, it comes in different forms, physical, verbal, emotional, electronic, in person, via the social community, and …
Do you see a change in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag, and get involved…
Do you see fear and indifference in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag and get involved…
Do you see a physical change, anger, change in clothing style, nutrition, money spendings, etc, raise a red flag and get involved…
Victims should not be alone and wait for them to outgrow their fear and face their situations…
Bystanders should have character, take a stand in life, and prove existence…
As for the bullies, once a bully, always a bully! unless they learn to cope with their fear, weakness, and the problems that led to them enjoying seeing the pain in others carelessly!
I saw a child, sitting during the school break alone, the worst part was that child ensured he remained invisible to others around him on the court.
I saw fear, hidden tears, I saw his head looking down more than up, using his site vision to avoid eye contact with his surrounding, staying behind an invisible wall to exclude himself…
Close your eyes and imagine this child, imagine this child is yours!
How do you feel?
Now imagine that your child knows about that child and what happened to him!
How do you feel? should you encourage your child to stand for himself, not be a bystander, and be the voice of the helpless?
AND NOW, PLEASE OPEN YOUR EYES, LOOK AT THIS CHILD, AND IMAGINE THAT THIS CHILD, LIVING IN FEAR, WITH HIDDEN TEARS, IMAGINE, THAT HE/SHE WAS BULLIED BY YOUR CHILD!
Now tell me, HOW DO YOU FEEL?
The monster I raised, every child was born innocent!”
#MOI and how can I help my child? is your child in pain, as a bully, bystander, or victim? they are all in pain!
Get in touch: youreverydaycoffeeblog@gmail.com
Read Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…,
Learn from ABIGAIL about the problems of a child, and join her journey to heal your child’s pain!
Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“Tears of a child and the child crying alone…
Let me share a fact with you, the tears you see as a parent are a burst after a long time concern in the mind of that little child.
No matter how old, or the size of that child, the concern, he or she lives when they are alone, is bigger and stronger than the mind of that child or what one older and bigger in size could handle.
Bullying, it comes in different forms, physical, verbal, emotional, electronic, in person, via the social community, and …
Do you see a change in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag, and get involved…
Do you see fear and indifference in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag and get involved…
Do you see a physical change, anger, change in clothing style, nutrition, money spendings, etc, raise a red flag and get involved…
Victims should not be alone and wait for them to outgrow their fear and face their situations…
Bystanders should have character, take a stand in life, and prove existence…
As for the bullies, once a bully, always a bully! unless they learn to cope with their fear, weakness, and the problems that led to them enjoying seeing the pain in others carelessly!
I saw a child, sitting during the school break alone, the worst part was that child ensured he remained invisible to others around him on the court.
I saw fear, hidden tears, I saw his head looking down more than up, using his site vision to avoid eye contact with his surrounding, staying behind an invisible wall to exclude himself…
Close your eyes and imagine this child, imagine this child is yours!
How do you feel?
Now imagine that your child knows about that child and what happened to him!
How do you feel? should you encourage your child to stand for himself, not be a bystander, and be the voice of the helpless?
AND NOW, PLEASE OPEN YOUR EYES, LOOK AT THIS CHILD, AND IMAGINE THAT THIS CHILD, LIVING IN FEAR, WITH HIDDEN TEARS, IMAGINE, THAT HE/SHE WAS BULLIED BY YOUR CHILD!
Now tell me, HOW DO YOU FEEL?
The monster I raised, every child was born innocent!”
#MOI and how can I help my child? is your child in pain, as a bully, bystander, or victim? they are all in pain!
Get in touch: youreverydaycoffeeblog@gmail.com
Read Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…,
Learn from ABIGAIL about the problems of a child, and join her journey to heal your child’s pain!
Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“He wasn’t just a little boy, that boy in the class. I watched him grow and witnessed him struggle, but, I stood there watching!
It is the story, the story of bullying, not only written words in a book, or scenes taking place in a movie…. bullying is the reality our children live on a daily basis.
Observe your children’s behavior, the changes in pattern, in dress code, their eating habits, the playing routine, their friendship… bullies will not admit their actions, victims shall not confirm the pain, and bystanders will live with regret!
The bullying disease that took over for generations, will not stop overnight… where does your child fall, under which category? Can you encourage them to speak up?
You may be able to protect them periodically, but the change should happen from within!
The rule of “you are my friend. or will have no friend!” is the statement that we need to push our children to stop using…
The statement of “you cannot attend my birthday” when a whole class is invited except few, is in the hand of adults to set the tone to their children by saying, you either invite the class or only a few, and remember the birthday is a memory for our children to enjoy and not to tease the left outs…
The sarcastic attitude that intimidates a child and humiliates them is forbidden, our child might be outspoken, beautiful, with high skills in academics or physical activities, but the other children have special abilities as well…
Let us help our children take pride in self for what they have and do, but be humble enough to praise others for their achievements and help them reach their potential.
Call it teamwork, call it integrity, honesty, loyalty, respect, responsibility, humility, empathy, compassion, agility, perseverance, humility, fairness… I call it, help them become a PACER!
Mommy, I am A PACER! is a book of 5 short stories for parents and children. The book targets the incidents children survive on a daily basis, and help them, through co-illustration with the author, solve them and freely discuss them when they see the main character Abigail go through the same incidents.
Life is not a book, but at times knowing that someone knows how we feel will help us acknowledge, express, and deal with our own feelings. Hope you get to have your own
and help your child change and be the change in his/her community following ABIGAIL’s footsteps.”
#MOI
Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“In my world, I believe in goodness, I see it happening, it is at times a déja-vue, because I believe that people deep down seek happiness, want to share peace, and want to exchange love…
I hear their unspoken words, I see their hidden actions, I react to what I assume they want…”
#MOI again that is my world, hope to meet half way
