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Tears of a child…

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“Tears of a child and the child crying alone…
Let me share a fact with you, the tears you see as a parent are a burst after a long time concern in the mind of that little child.
No matter how old, or the size of that child, the concern, he or she lives when they are alone, is bigger and stronger than the mind of that child or what one older and bigger in size could handle.
Bullying, it comes in different forms, physical, verbal, emotional, electronic, in person, via the social community, and …
Do you see a change in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag, and get involved…
Do you see fear and indifference in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag and get involved…
Do you see a physical change, anger, change in clothing style, nutrition, money spendings, etc, raise a red flag and get involved…
Victims should not be alone and wait for them to outgrow their fear and face their situations…
Bystanders should have character, take a stand in life, and prove existence…
As for the bullies, once a bully, always a bully! unless they learn to cope with their fear, weakness, and the problems that led to them enjoying seeing the pain in others carelessly!

I saw a child, sitting during the school break alone, the worst part was that child ensured he remained invisible to others around him on the court.
I saw fear, hidden tears, I saw his head looking down more than up, using his site vision to avoid eye contact with his surrounding, staying behind an invisible wall to exclude himself…
Close your eyes and imagine this child, imagine this child is yours!
How do you feel?
Now imagine that your child knows about that child and what happened to him!
How do you feel? should you encourage your child to stand for himself, not be a bystander, and be the voice of the helpless?
AND NOW, PLEASE OPEN YOUR EYES, LOOK AT THIS CHILD, AND IMAGINE THAT THIS CHILD, LIVING IN FEAR, WITH HIDDEN TEARS, IMAGINE, THAT HE/SHE WAS BULLIED BY YOUR CHILD!
Now tell me, HOW DO YOU FEEL?

The monster I raised, every child was born innocent!”
#MOI and how can I help my child? is your child in pain, as a bully, bystander, or victim? they are all in pain!
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Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…,
Learn from ABIGAIL about the problems of a child, and join her journey to heal your child’s pain!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

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Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
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Secrets…

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“The secrets inside of us… they grow with us!
We all have a little secret, one that pinches like a needle, or blessed to have had it to move on in life!
Chapter 11 from WHERE IS MY ANGEL? The man in my dream or the dream of a man…
Read my book, and hope your little secret adds a smile to your soul!”
#MOI time to confess

 

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html


Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
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No, I am not a Loser!

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“No, I am not a Loser! & that is how I felt for a long while…
Deep down, I knew my strength; deep down, I knew how much I had to offer; deep down, I knew that one day I will set free… but what happened?!
They wanted me to bow, they wanted me to support their criminal actions, they wanted me to speak only when given the right, and while given the words to say…
They wanted me to be a follower, a bystander, a shadow, an opinion-less… They wanted me to just nod my head, have no opinion, have no say…

The criminal outside jail, kills you softly, makes you feel like a loser at all times, makes you fear detachment, denies you happiness, makes you live under uncessable pressure… until the day you begin thinking that a day without pain is a blessing, while it is your right to be happy, live peacefully, and enjoy life!
For years, I waited for help, prayed for help, dreamt of help, then one day I realized that all the help I needed was within me, all the courage I needed was within me, all I needed was within me, just waiting for me to handle me, to stand for myself, to take a stand, voice my opinion, and breath the fresh air of freedom, freedom of speech, opinion, happiness, and enjoy life!

Dear Friend,
You, are not a LOSER!
You are stronger than you think…
You are beautiful inside out…
You are smart…
You can do it!”
#MOI when jail was on the other side of the bars!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

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Called past for a reason

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“We don’t remember icky moments to feel bad about the past…

They flash back for us to feel better about today!”

#MOI there were days were my own face was a mask… I rebelled against my own soul to live and love myself again!

Hope you get to read my books and for yourself before others 🙏❤️

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Believe in Tomorrow

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“Everything has an end

Better beginnings await us

Tears of distress will be replaced

Tears of joy shall take stand

Simply because we deserve happiness

Simply because we believe…”

#MOI BElIEVE & SEE IT HAPPENING

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The Handshake…

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Message in a video on the link below:

“The Handshake… it is the most common body language for greeting, agreement, peace, but, I am talking about a specific handshake, I am talking about the one symbolizing  unity, commitment, partnership, and not any handshake, the one that just precedes the love kiss, I am discussing the handshake of the longest and most committed partnership, Marriage!

Did you ever think about that handshake… whether married, divorced, in a relationship outside the box, or in a promised unity, did you ever think about your initial handshake.
Did you ever wonder why you pulled your hand back after you had already given the sign of commitment?
Did you ever wonder why you can no longer see the hand of your partner?
Did you ever wonder how your so-called half feels when laying near you at night?
Did you ever wonder whether your so-called half’s soul is with you while laying down near you?
Did you ever wonder what makes one’s commitment change?
Did you ever miss the half you married?
Did you ever realize that you could have changed?
When did you last surprise your partner with a rose?
When did you stop being in love?
When did you stop looking at your partner passionately?
When did you hug last, and to say no more, for censorship reasons, when did you last make …. and not have …? and if you cannot fill the blank with the proper words, do not continue reading!

The handshake, it is a blessing. It is a blessing for you and that person that entrusted his hand with yours. of course, if you know its meaning.
The day you commit to your promise, your life should change to fulfill a joint venture, make new memories, and prosper while growing.
Wait, is that a business or marriage? Well, it is an investment and it is up to you to discover the difference; if any!
Last advice: Do not reheat the tea, it will get very dark!”

#MOI because once you are deceived, I don’t know which is worst, trusting again or trusting the same person twice!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again after disappointment

Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

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Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
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He wasn’t just a little boy…

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“He wasn’t just a little boy, that boy in the class. I watched him grow and witnessed him struggle, but, I stood there watching!

It is the story, the story of bullying, not only written words in a book, or scenes taking place in a movie…. bullying is the reality our children live on a daily basis.

Observe your children’s behavior, the changes in pattern, in dress code, their eating habits, the playing routine, their friendship… bullies will not admit their actions, victims shall not confirm the pain, and bystanders will live with regret!

The bullying disease that took over for generations, will not stop overnight… where does your child fall, under which category? Can you encourage them to speak up?
You may be able to protect them periodically, but the change should happen from within!

The rule of “you are my friend. or will have no friend!” is the statement that we need to push our children to stop using…
The statement of “you cannot attend my birthday” when a whole class is invited except few, is in the hand of adults to set the tone to their children by saying, you either invite the class or only a few, and remember the birthday is a memory for our children to enjoy and not to tease the left outs…
The sarcastic attitude that intimidates a child and humiliates them is forbidden, our child might be outspoken, beautiful, with high skills in academics or physical activities, but the other children have special abilities as well…

Let us help our children take pride in self for what they have and do, but be humble enough to praise others for their achievements and help them reach their potential.
Call it teamwork, call it integrity, honesty, loyalty, respect, responsibility, humility, empathy, compassion, agility, perseverance, humility, fairness… I call it, help them become a PACER!

Mommy, I am A PACER! is a book of 5 short stories for parents and children. The book targets the incidents children survive on a daily basis, and help them, through co-illustration with the author, solve them and freely discuss them when they see the main character Abigail go through the same incidents.

Life is not a book, but at times knowing that someone knows how we feel will help us acknowledge, express, and deal with our own feelings. Hope you get to have your own
and help your child change and be the change in his/her community following ABIGAIL’s footsteps.”
#MOI

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again

Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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Sometimes I wish someone would understand…. said the teenager!

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“Sometimes I wish someone would understand, said the teenager!

It is the only true statement that is not declared, simply because when they become teenagers, their ego grows faster that their body or mind.

The struggle to exist, becomes a main concern among friends when one of them leads and decides which one belongs to the clan…

The smart ones shies away, because they are bullied for their academic achievements…

The popular ones, whether boys or girls, take over the sweets ones, and erase their existence…

The outspoken ones, intimidate the genuine ones…

The ones with long hair, clear skin, aligned body, and no glasses, attract the muscled boys…

The loud ones, the tall ones, the ….

Let me tell you how I see it, a perfect jungle, and the winner is, no it it not the one that was blessed with what they believe

is perfection of the physical appearance or loud voice.

While those are busy brushing their hair, whether boys or girls, the others are learning to deal with rejection, and mastering the skills of survival. Although the teen age years are crucial to existence, and for some it is a matter of life and/or no life, but believe me, at times, those days are what makes those kids the masters of tomorrow

Can someone help, yes, children, parents and educators! Parents by raising a child with strong character, and educators by being invisible mediators since most crimes take place at schools; as for the children themselves, I say two things: life is not a contest with size, popularity, hair and skin color, etc… life is contest of righteousness and sometimes silence is the winner, it is about the skills that would last you a lifetime, and one of them is perseverance, it is about respect of self and others, it is about endorsing in others what we see in self, and believing in others’ potential and cheering for their success, it is about teamwork, being genuine, defending the weak, and speaking up for the voiceless, accepting others, understanding them, it is about empathy, it is about learning to solve conflicts peacefully and not being bystanders… this is life!

#MOI LET US INSTILL IN OUR CHILDREN THE POWER OF CHANGE RATHER THAN LITTLE MONSTERS

Author of

Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?

http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!

http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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