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Bullying… at what age does it end?

22 Friday Oct 2021

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“Bullying… at what age does it end? & is it a form of mental health disorder?

In my opinion, children are all born with angelic characteristics, situations in their life push them to extort their emotions on others.
With time, their actions become more painful, hurtful, deviant; they start mastering different scenarios and targeting
more or specific weak individuals.

If we agree that all children are born with angelic characters, this should rule out the form of mental health disorder, but psychologists are leaning towards considering bullies to more likely have a mental disorder.

Honestly, truly not the scope of my talk today. After witnessing the triangle of bullying for years in my educational career field, I tell you one thing for sure, if the bully, victim, and bystander, had no mental disorders, trust me, with time, all three need psychological therapy and help.

The number one disorder in a classroom, when a child can hurt another and move on with his day with pride…
The number one pain a child can go through, the way he/she feels when intimidated by bullies…

DEAR CHILD, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Tell the world how you feel, if you are angry, scream, tell your parents, your school teacher, a friend…

DEAR VICTIM, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Speak up, and face the victim, and do not be intimidated to ask for help…

DEAR BYSTANDER, YOU OUGHT TO STAND FOR YOURSELF!
Fearing to face the world is a challenge that starts on a small scale, by standing for others, you learn to stand for yourself… do it, don’t regret it!

DEAR PARENTS, FOR GOD’S SAKE, ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOUR CHILD IS A BULLY, AND GET HIM THE RIGHT HELP!
& Last, let me ask you one question, at what age does bullying stop?!

”#MOI help your child get over bullying, facing the bullies, and dealing with this vicious disease!
My book, Mommy, I Am a PACER, targets children’s issues at school and will help them and their parents through reading and co-illustrating deal with those issues.

PACER’s National Bullying

Prevention Center (NBPC)UNICEF

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*Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices
Book by #MOI, Can broken hearts be mended?

*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

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Connecting with People

18 Sunday Apr 2021

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“Connecting with People…The Truth About You!
When adults connect with each other, they always try to find common grounds.
When children connect with each other, they directly move forward to togetherness.

What makes children change, what makes them grow into the details of status, ethnicity, race, religion…
What or who wakes the demon in angels, if you believe as I do, that children are all born angels, and life situations
works its course to change them.

The way I see it, it is very normal for children to start changing. Sometimes it is the community that includes parents, and other times it is the curiosity to explore who they are, but they change, they get affected by direct and indirect treatment that in return, will make them change and change the way they deal with others!

Sad? Very! but…

As parents, perfection does not exist, and truly, I wish parenthood came with a handbook. & since characteristics filters from one generations to another, so does emotional pain. If you think you outgrow abuse of any kind or lack of attention by parents, trust me, you may pretend you do, but deep inside, it is there.
If you think you can outgrow bullying and mistreatment, trust after years of clinical therapy, you will learn to understand, and deal with emotions, but pain, and the memory of pain, cannot be erased.
If you think that as a victim of abuse, bullying, and mistreatment, try thinking about the bully, and how they will take the remorse feeling to the grave.
& if you thing that a bystander minded his business, regret will haunt them, and it will be a life challenge for them to get over the fact of not getting involved to stand in the way of preventing or supporting the victim…

However you turn the triangle of bully, victim, bystander, it will always have three angles; and however you try breaking the pain, it is a vicious circle that will keep on rolling, until this one person stand early on in time, and breaks it.

So, people, let’s work on a better future, by caring for the little minds. Children should not pay the price of our past and pain. We, as adult, are the tie breaker, when we ensure we do not inherit our children the flaws we lived, and we secure they see flaws and know how to deal with them.

Can we? yes!”
#MOI Let us start building a generation of peace, and arm our children with humanity!

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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Mom & Daughter 1st Quarrel!

02 Saturday May 2020

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Congratulations, you have a teenager in the house!

Mom to the child: what is your problem?
Child to mom silently: I am a TEENAGER?

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*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
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Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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Link to live session on Bullying

23 Thursday Apr 2020

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“I woke up to see a hidden tear beneath the fringe…
#MOI Bullying the vicious disease of every generation

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Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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I woke up to see a hidden tear beneath the fringe…

23 Thursday Apr 2020

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“I woke up to see a hidden tear beneath the fringe…
What is happening, I said, are you ok? of course with an overreacting sense of words and body language.
Nothing, with her head looking to the floor, said the daughter, I am simply not well enough to go to school today.
I was heartbroken, I just wanted to break someone in half, I knew it was not a love deception, my daughter was bullied!
That was the story, the I is the mother of this early-teenage girl suffering from bullying.

Bullying and this anonymous story shall be discussed this afternoon.
Join at 4:00 pm live on ITV. Let me know whether anyone would like to be in the live broadcast with a story to tell or experience to share.
Stay tuned!”
#MOI Bullying the vicious disease of every generation.

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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Subscribe for free to my ITV YouTube Channel
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Let’s re-write history

29 Sunday Mar 2020

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“Let’s re-write history, my friends…
Let’s replace hatred with love…
Let’s restore peace…
Let’s ensure no one sleeps hungry…
Let’s accept each other…
Let’s work on our children…
Let’s stop abuse, bullying, & pain…
Let’s have them differentiate between right and wrong…
Let’s build a better tomorrow… for you, for me, and for many generations to come!”
#MOI heartbroken over pain around the world, can you help!

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:Amazon: amazon.com link to both books Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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My life, my thoughts!

16 Sunday Feb 2020

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“I made it through, because to me, life was a survival choice!”

#MOI there were days I chose to live, & others days I feared my thoughts

I invite you to read my books… for some books will simply change your life!

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Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
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Kids… they just break my ❤️

10 Monday Feb 2020

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“Kids … they just break my heart!

If you think you life as adult is tough, try to be in a child’s shoes, living the puberty changes, some they can control and others no, the beard, the voice, the belly, the hair, the period, the height, weight, the looks, height, weight… try facing the bully, the my friend or no friends, the pain, the tears…

I MEAN TRY REMEMBERING!

Were you ever bullied, were you ever the bully, or were you the bystander?

Each breaks my heart, the victim for understanding that being bullied is not their fault, they just happened to be at the place the wrong time; the bully for energizing on the pain they cause others, and being able to continue their life despite that; & last, the bystander who feels they have the right to watch silently, turning the blind eye on, and sealing their ears from hearing others’ pain snd scream for help!”

#MOI I sometimes wonder which one of the three will end up an emotional timed bomb in their community?!

I invite you to read MOMMY, I AM A PACER! alone first then with your child. Remember how you once felt, how your child feels now, and then pass them the 5 short stories, let them express their feelings following Abigail’s footsteps in being change agents in their community, and ambassadors of peace for the next generations!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html
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Welcome back to school… but is it a welcome back for your child?

17 Tuesday Sep 2019

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Welcome back to school… but is it a welcome back for your child?

The story of every year, the circle of childhood, friendship, & what goes in those minds?!

Sadly the truth, and whom among us was not bullied, or left behind!

I believe it is part of growing in the land where children have to take on that phase alone and overcome it!

Lucky are those noticed by adults, and luckier are those who can stand for themselves, but the luckiest are those who can face the bullies, support the victims, and decide not to remain bystanders!

Which one is your child?

Do you discuss friendship with them?

Do you discuss new comers with them?

Do you discuss those with disabilities with them?

Do you discuss childhood? Friendship? Acceptance? Support? Group play? Keeping an eye on others? Not leaving any child behind?

Well, Abigail will help!

Read MOMMY, I AM A PACER! with your child, it will give examples of what children go through and survive on daily basis. Five short stories inspired by reality…

Enjoy, save and protect your child and others.

Welcome to every day world of children and probably adults!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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The boy staring outside the window…

25 Tuesday Jun 2019

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“The boy staring outside the window,

The mother looks at him,

The boy staring outside the window and smiling,

The mother looks at him and wonder,

The boy staring outside the window and smiling, he closes his eyes and….

The mother looks at him and wonder, then approached him,

The boy staring outside the window and smiling, he closes his eyes and tears dropped down his cheeks,

The mother looks at him and wonder, then approached him, wiped his tears and started crying herself!

What is wrong my son,

I am dreaming, the child answers,

It is daytime my son, she says,

I dream of nice friends when I am awake, because in real world, my friends hurt me!”

#MOI Did you ever wonder about childhood, how painful children could be to each other?

When children prefer dreaming of beautiful friends during the day than playing with those friends!

AUTHOR OF

MOMMY, I AM A PACER!

Your child is not alone, offer your child the chance to change his life and others by ABIGAIL’s footsteps