“There are actions in life that scar forever, and few among many, they lead to impacting one’s future, resulting, and without one knowing, to instability in relationships…
Are you one of them? men or women?
Are you causing them? father or mother?
Are you denying them? son or daughter?
Are you not talking about them? partner?
Does your ego stand in the way of acknowledging emotional pain?
Well, let’s discuss few points…
Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not asking about you?
Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not looking for you?
Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not standing for you?
Did you ever miss someone hugging you or holding your hand?
Did you ever feel that you were not supported irrespectively of any actions?
Did you ever cry in silence?
When you know there is a gap, you have to believe it.
When something odd happens, do not take the blame simply to downplay situations.
When you are feeling low, intimidated, belittled, ignored, denied love, or respect, or attention, do not justify other’s actions, do not blame yourself, and do not enclose those emotions.
You may decide to confront, or runaway…
You may decide to forgive, or ignore…
You may decide to stand for yourself, or for others undergoing same situations, or not…
Not matter how strong one is on the inside, the emotions a parent or partner caused are real.
One can chose to build imaginary braces to hold them together, but, they need to remember what happened, and try to understand why they feel this way… YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING YOURSELF or YOUR PARTNER, and YOU ARE ALONE.
WELL, OTHERS’ ACTIONS CAUSED DAMAGE TO YOUR SAFETY SHIELD,
NOT ONLY YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING OTHER’S LOVE but as well, YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING THAT YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE and ARE CAPABLE OF LOVING!”
#MOI Speak Up, if not for you, for those going through emotional pain!
#Pain discussed is one among many, can you imagine how one could be feeling right now?!
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