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Recognizing abuse!

11 Friday Aug 2023

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“You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!
But when those with a rebellious, outgoing character get hurt or abused, the community blame it on their character, while when someone living by the book is abused or hurt, they blame it on luck or fate.
Ale (Alexandra), Chapter 9
It is the reality in a fiction book, the reality we live in our daily life.
No, You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!
You wanted to be loved;
You fell in love;
You had love to offer;
You loved life;
You had an outgoing personality;
You trust others because you believe in goodness;
You were born to live your life…
No, You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!”
#MOI The word abuse was mentioned at least seven times in Life’s Detours, Alexandra’s Choices, but abuse has taken different forms many more times!

For all those abused women out there, No, You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong; & No, You are never alone!
I am the author telling you, while reading, remind yourself:
it’s life, not a book;
it’s a woman, not a character;
it’s reality & not a story!
Read the books, & get inspired…

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*Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices —–>Can broken hearts be mended?
*Where is My Angel? —–> about the role of faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER!—–> because I believe that children are the future, the change…
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Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
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Equation of relationships

19 Saturday Nov 2022

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“The equation of relationships is very simple:

  • Understanding that the partner is not ownership
  • Respecting the partner’s opinion & views
  • Caring enough to fix conflicts
  • Celebrating their success
  • Accepting the differences”

#MOI the author of Life’s Detours, Alexandra’s Choices, Where is My Angel?, & Mommy, I Am a PACER

Not just another book, get inspired, inspire a friend, & motivate a child…


I am an Internationally Published Author, a Social Media Host, & the Broadcaster of the Livestream
Let’s Grow Corporate Style
My books
*Life’s Detours: Alexandra’s Choices
Book by #MOI, Can broken hearts be mended?
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
All are available on this Amazon link: Click to purchase or view the books
Through the publishers:
Archway Publishing from Simon and Schuster: Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy, I Am a PACER
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You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!

11 Thursday Aug 2022

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“You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!
But when those with a rebellious, outgoing character get hurt or abused, the community blame it on their character, while when someone living by the book is abused or hurt, they blame it on luck or fate.
Ale (Alexandra), Chapter 9

It is the reality in a fiction book, the reality we live, in our daily life.
No, “You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!
You wanted to be loved;
You fell in love;
You had love to offer;
You loved life;
You had an outgoing personality;
You trust others because you believe in goodness;
You were born to live your life…
No, You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong!”

#MOI the word abuse was mentioned at least seven times in Life’s Detours, Alexandra’s Choices, but abuse has taken different forms many more times!
For all those abused women out there, No, You Haven’t Done Anything Wrong; & No, You are never alone!

Internationally Published Author, Host, & Broadcaster of the Livestream Let’s Grow Corporate Style
My books
*Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices
Book by #MOI, Can broken hearts be mended?
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
All are available on this Amazon link: Click to purchase or view the books
Through the publishers:
Archway Publishing from Simon and Schuster: Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy, I Am a PACER
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Subscribe for free to my I Channel, News & Broadcast on YouTube
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I lied… I was afraid!

26 Tuesday Oct 2021

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“I lied… I was afraid! said… she is the victim, she’s afraid, she’s alone, she’s depressed, she is about to…

Yes, when alone and afraid, they feel it is the end of the world… sadly it is the end for many, someone I know put an end to it, another one is still living under his roof. To me, both are not alive. The first one ended her life, may she rest in peace, I learned late about her case, as for the second one, she is still under his roof… last time she called me, I advised her to seek help, her abusive partner is well connected, she was afraid to go legally, but she was able to document her case, and again, she refused to move forward, and unfortunately, I cannot contact her, I just wait for her to contact me!

A story, among many. A woman, among many.
That is the reality, a sick-minded man, allows himself to abuse a woman. My book, Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices, targeted similar incidents among many others, it shows the results, it shows facts and tells a story, and then, it gives hope, because yes, there is hope and a solution.

For you out there, you are not alone, seek help, one fact, you cannot and should not handle it alone!

#MOI Host of online Livestream & Author of

*Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices
Book by #MOI, Can broken hearts be mended?

*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

All are available on this Amazon link: Click to purchase or view the books
Through the publishers:
Archway Publishing from Simon and Schuster: Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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Am I damaged goods?

28 Saturday Nov 2020

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“Am I damaged goods?

A question I asked myself… why is it that no relationship lasts? I cannot see myself as a duo, I cannot hold someone’s hand for long, I cannot keep near someone and sleep tight…

Am I damaged goods?

No you are not, you were hurt, deceived, and emotionally traumatized!

You forgot to speak for yourself, and probably were in a situation where you couldn’t…

Sometimes the fear is so strong that we cannot face it, or think we cannot. At that moment, we lack confidence under the attack of the abuser thinking they are the sole carer for our future that we fear raising our voice and speaking our mind.

So am I damaged goods? No I am not, no you are not.

We are are simply under the spell of the abuser, waiting for that moment when we gain our strength, confidence, and take charge of our life although with fear but it will take just a moment to knock that firewall we are hiding behind…

We will, We shall, because we are not alone and I know because I was once there, on the other side!”

#MOI the listening ears you need and your voice until we hear you up!

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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Let’s re-write history

29 Sunday Mar 2020

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“Let’s re-write history, my friends…
Let’s replace hatred with love…
Let’s restore peace…
Let’s ensure no one sleeps hungry…
Let’s accept each other…
Let’s work on our children…
Let’s stop abuse, bullying, & pain…
Let’s have them differentiate between right and wrong…
Let’s build a better tomorrow… for you, for me, and for many generations to come!”
#MOI heartbroken over pain around the world, can you help!

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:Amazon: amazon.com link to both books Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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If you believe that a simple book can change the way you look at your life, read those books!

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My life, my thoughts!

16 Sunday Feb 2020

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“I made it through, because to me, life was a survival choice!”

#MOI there were days I chose to live, & others days I feared my thoughts

I invite you to read my books… for some books will simply change your life!

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Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
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About @Bella…

20 Tuesday Nov 2018

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“About #Bella…
Bella was the first child born to her parents, Bella added a smile to her dad’s face and in return, he promised her security and happiness.
Bella grew older and, year after year, she was glowing and working on herself to meet her and her dad’s expectations.
Bella was successful, but at times, she faced difficulties, like any other young girl. Her dad, as promised, stood by her. except for one day,  she met a guy, and sadly, this guy abused her physically and verbally.
Bella shied away from dad and friends, fearing to be judged, and accused. what she did not know, is that such cases are not to be solved alone, and additionally, she is not at fault of such behavior.
I will end the story here, although much remaining to be discussed.
The lesson, Bella could be any one of us, and how many Bellas are out there struggling alone!
Dear Bella, speak up, and reach out, your dad will not judge you, and hopefully, he will fulfill his promise; as for friends, they will understand that only sick people allow themselves to abuse others.
You are not alone…”
#MOI the woman that will understand… Bella, #speak_up

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Tears of a Child… Can I help?

21 Saturday Jul 2018

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“Tears of a child and the child with hidden tears… (Read through and Repost)
Let me share a fact with you, the tears you see as a parent are a burst after a long time concern in the mind of that little child.
No matter how old, or the size of that child, the concern, he or she lives when they are alone, is bigger and stronger than the mind of that child or what one older and bigger in size could handle.
Bullying, it comes in different forms, physical, verbal, emotional, electronic, in person, via the social community, and …
Do you see a change in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag, and get involved…
Do you see fear and indifference in your child’s behavior, raise a red flag and get involved…
Do you see a physical change, anger, change in clothing style, nutrition, money spendings, etc, raise a red flag and get involved…
Victims should not be alone and wait for them to outgrow their fear and face their situations…
Bystanders should have character, take a stand in life, and prove existence…
As for the bullies, once a bully, always a bully! unless they learn to cope with their fear, weakness, and the problems that led to them enjoying seeing the pain in others carelessly!

I saw a child, sitting during the school break alone, the worst part was that child ensured he remained invisible to others around him on the court.
I saw fear, hidden tears, I saw his head looking down more than up, using his site vision to avoid eye contact with his surrounding, staying behind an invisible wall to exclude himself…
Close your eyes and imagine this child, imagine this child is yours!
How do you feel?
Now imagine that your child knows about that child and what happened to him!
How do you feel? should you encourage your child to stand for himself, not be a bystander, and be the voice of the helpless?
AND NOW, PLEASE OPEN YOUR EYES, LOOK AT THIS CHILD, AND IMAGINE THAT THIS CHILD, LIVING IN FEAR, WITH HIDDEN TEARS, IMAGINE, THAT HE/SHE WAS BULLIED BY YOUR CHILD!
Now tell me, HOW DO YOU FEEL?

The monster I raised, every child was born innocent!”
#MOI and how can I help my child? is your child in pain, as a bully, bystander, or victim? they are all in pain!
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Learn from ABIGAIL about the problems of a child, and join her journey to heal your child’s pain!

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Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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