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Connecting with People

18 Sunday Apr 2021

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Bullying, Children, children book, Peace, Victim

“Connecting with People…The Truth About You!
When adults connect with each other, they always try to find common grounds.
When children connect with each other, they directly move forward to togetherness.

What makes children change, what makes them grow into the details of status, ethnicity, race, religion…
What or who wakes the demon in angels, if you believe as I do, that children are all born angels, and life situations
works its course to change them.

The way I see it, it is very normal for children to start changing. Sometimes it is the community that includes parents, and other times it is the curiosity to explore who they are, but they change, they get affected by direct and indirect treatment that in return, will make them change and change the way they deal with others!

Sad? Very! but…

As parents, perfection does not exist, and truly, I wish parenthood came with a handbook. & since characteristics filters from one generations to another, so does emotional pain. If you think you outgrow abuse of any kind or lack of attention by parents, trust me, you may pretend you do, but deep inside, it is there.
If you think you can outgrow bullying and mistreatment, trust after years of clinical therapy, you will learn to understand, and deal with emotions, but pain, and the memory of pain, cannot be erased.
If you think that as a victim of abuse, bullying, and mistreatment, try thinking about the bully, and how they will take the remorse feeling to the grave.
& if you thing that a bystander minded his business, regret will haunt them, and it will be a life challenge for them to get over the fact of not getting involved to stand in the way of preventing or supporting the victim…

However you turn the triangle of bully, victim, bystander, it will always have three angles; and however you try breaking the pain, it is a vicious circle that will keep on rolling, until this one person stand early on in time, and breaks it.

So, people, let’s work on a better future, by caring for the little minds. Children should not pay the price of our past and pain. We, as adult, are the tie breaker, when we ensure we do not inherit our children the flaws we lived, and we secure they see flaws and know how to deal with them.

Can we? yes!”
#MOI Let us start building a generation of peace, and arm our children with humanity!

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*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
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Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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23 Thursday Apr 2020

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#Inspiration, #Pain, blogging, Bullying, Bystander, disease, live discussion, outbreak, tv, Victim

“I woke up to see a hidden tear beneath the fringe…
#MOI Bullying the vicious disease of every generation

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Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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Kids… they just break my ❤️

10 Monday Feb 2020

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#Friends, #Inspiration, #PACER, #Peace, #Personal, #trust, #words, #World, blogging, Bully, Bullying, Bystander, change, Kids, tears, Victim

“Kids … they just break my heart!

If you think you life as adult is tough, try to be in a child’s shoes, living the puberty changes, some they can control and others no, the beard, the voice, the belly, the hair, the period, the height, weight, the looks, height, weight… try facing the bully, the my friend or no friends, the pain, the tears…

I MEAN TRY REMEMBERING!

Were you ever bullied, were you ever the bully, or were you the bystander?

Each breaks my heart, the victim for understanding that being bullied is not their fault, they just happened to be at the place the wrong time; the bully for energizing on the pain they cause others, and being able to continue their life despite that; & last, the bystander who feels they have the right to watch silently, turning the blind eye on, and sealing their ears from hearing others’ pain snd scream for help!”

#MOI I sometimes wonder which one of the three will end up an emotional timed bomb in their community?!

I invite you to read MOMMY, I AM A PACER! alone first then with your child. Remember how you once felt, how your child feels now, and then pass them the 5 short stories, let them express their feelings following Abigail’s footsteps in being change agents in their community, and ambassadors of peace for the next generations!

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Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html
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Those who touch our heart…

02 Tuesday Apr 2019

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#book, #children, #PACER, #Pain, Bullying, change, Victim

“Those who touch our heart…
Today was very special, I don’t if I ever told you, I used to work in a school, those among you who read my book would know, I was the director of the middle school, and generation after generation, I watched those kids grow physically, emotionally, mentally, I watched them overcome personal issues, those they bring from home and explode them on other kids, and other issues they develop due to facing others’. 
Bullying was at the heart of the middle school, name it, it was there, physical, sarcasm, belittling others, isolation, on social media, in messages, among friends, you are my friend or will have no friends, and the list is still at the beginning.
I always felt that in the circle of the bullying crime, you have to cure the bully before the bystander and before the victim, since in my opinion, I viewed pain crawling out of him/her to feed their anger and dilemma; the bystanders represent a higher number among the crowd, they need time to build enough character to stand for themselves and others; and last the victims, although bullying hurts, but when surrounded by the right people, they will eventually heal their wounds, once they understand that bullies act out of weakness and pain rather than themselves being weak and wrong!
I used to call bullying the vicious circle… it is a long story.

Anyways, among the many I witness grow, there was this one child, who really had it bad! I and many around me worked very hard to help, unfortunately, he had to leave the school, and go struggle abroad, between his split parents. His departure broke my heart, I knew, at times we can only help a little, but as well I knew, that at least we were his serene community! 
Days went by, and his news was only fading away, but he was always on my mind, and I always wondered whether he was able to find himself in the harsh world that he was born in.

I learned at least one lesson per day during school days, except this child taught me many!
Today, as I was in a coffee shop, trying to rest, this gentleman approached me, and said, Miss Badiaa, I am, I didn’t let him finish, I recognized him on the spot, I hugged him, and tears shed… he did succeed after a long struggle, he made it, and I thanked God for crossing his path with mine to put my mind at ease!

Dear parents, readers, and educators, 
parents, try to keep your conflicts away from your children,
readers, this school was and still is among the best in the world, no we were not exclusive with bullying issues if you don’t know, every child goes through that cycle,
and educators, always remember that your role is far beyond the book!”

To this child, id you ever get across this article, as I told you this afternoon, I am so proud of you!”
#MOI the Author of Mommy I am a PACER! inspired by my days at school, when I was privileged to learn from those children and serve them to reach better days!

 

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My friend or No friends!

24 Sunday Sep 2017

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#book, #PACER, blogging, Bullying, Bystander, Friendship, Leader, Mother&Child, Victim

“My friend or No friends… is the disease of bullying that is talking over schools around the world. It is one sort of bullying among many where children take the lead in groups and unfortunately decide who and what.
Bullying, I always called it the vicious circle, unless the victim has a very strong personality, he/she will end up overpowering weaker or smaller people to feel better about themselves because sadly they fear to stand for the bully.
Why do children bully others, I always asked my students to look profoundly in the eye of the bully and try to find the weakness that lead to bullying; not all victims can do that!
Why do victims succumb to bullies and deny the fact that they were bullied? fear, shame, ego, and many more… my heart aches for those that cannot stand for self!
& Bystanders… when are you going to learn to stand for yourself by standing for others! Imagine the world around you when you stand by those who need you!”
#MOI and Abigail, the character that stood for her friends, give your child a chance to express themselves by following the steps of Abigail in MOMMY, I AM A PACER!

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Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live againBoth available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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