“The <I do> thought is the dream of all girls, it starts at young age, it’s about the dress, the ring, the veil, the flowers, the music, the first dance, the cake, the crowd… It’s the vision of the prince, on the white horse, the kiss, the way he held my hand, the way he grabbed me on the dancing floor… Sometimes it goes beyond, to the dream of the house, the garden, the walk-in closet, the car… The girls grow, reality falls in, like darkness some of their nights become lightless, and like the thunders in the skies their dreams start turning foggy and their priorities changing…
With time, the dream starts turning into reality, and the glamourous I DO turns into LET’S BE TOGETHER. Simple, the dream of eternal love will dress a different gown, white it shall remain, but the prince becomes real, and the first dance will have a different music…
The difference between the dream of a young girl and the reality when grown, is that true love after the many heartbreaking experiences, that girl will learn that true love does not mean eternal peace, but rather standing by each other to reach it. We, people, men, and women, are different, but we all want love, a hand to hold when we share the pillow at night, and an I DO!”
#MOI When the dream becomes about the person and not the wedding, we can simply build a home instead of a house!
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“When I lose control, or I lose creativity… Occasionally, yes it happens. I was born ready, active, in action, in charge, & behind. What does behind means? Well, you will figure it out throughout! Childhood, is a very important phase, where children need time to grow, develop, and play… they need to take time to shower, dress, eat, play, stare at the void, speak to their imaginary friend, and… Adolescence… I don’t remember, I can state the characteristics if you want, but to be honest, it’s a forgotten phase! Young adults… I believe I blocked that phase! Married, being a mom was the favorite time of my life. I think I wanted to live the time I never had, as I lost my mother when she was having me at birth time, therefore, I ached to being a mom and making the best memorable moments for both myself and my daughters! Throughout, I wanted to succeed, I wanted to make them happy, and be happy! I barely remember a full night sleep, I barely remember sitting and enjoying my time without planning the day after, or making plans, I barely remember dreaming because I was always on short term list DOING! But what happened to me? I feel I lost control, I feel I lost my creativity, I feel I live in the phase after ground zero when all you hear is the echoes of a life that is pending…
I guess I need a break, I need serenity, I need internal reassurance that the future is a new phase, requiring my new me to dare and snap out, requiring a step towards the a new day. Am I ready? Well, yes, full heartedly! Am I starting today? Well, I believe the day is coming soon, but today I will be having a TV & Pizza day!”
#MOI Trusting self has never been a problem to me, but trusting others…
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“Are you ready for change… or change is needed? It is a question one asks self many times along the course of life, whether in relationships, business, or life itself, the question will pop up like a foot pop when passionately kissing.
How can I see the resemblance? Well, when one lives the routine of life for a long time, and the maximum affections she receives on daily basis is the presence of a person under the roof, in this case any attention will be welcome not for trahison but to revive the butterflies in the stomach, a feeling that revives a dead corp, as I always say. & that my friends, is a change that is always needed… In relationships, I tell you, keep those butterflies flying with your partner. A word, a kiss on the forehead, a coffee, the favorite piece of cake reminding them that you know and you care, a flower, anything, anytime, and don’t wait for special occasions! In business, I tell you, keep the team active, motivated… keep things renovated, include retreats, activities, awards… make little competitions, praise people… Invite speakers, international people, exchange cultures… give the employees one at a time, occasional treats and/or an hour off. Open up to new ideas, and development, accept the knowledge of others! In life, I tell you, it is the combination of the above… dare to ride new waves, dare to dream while awake, dare to embark on new journeys. People are interesting creatures, they can all contribute to your life. Enjoy it and live the adventures!”
#MOI A woman taking to a woman, but as well directing this letter to men!
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“There are actions in life that scar forever, and few among many, they lead to impacting one’s future, resulting, and without one knowing, to instability in relationships… Are you one of them? men or women? Are you causing them? father or mother? Are you denying them? son or daughter? Are you not talking about them? partner? Does your ego stand in the way of acknowledging emotional pain? Well, let’s discuss few points… Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not asking about you? Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not looking for you? Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not standing for you? Did you ever miss someone hugging you or holding your hand? Did you ever feel that you were not supported irrespectively of any actions? Did you ever cry in silence?
When you know there is a gap, you have to believe it. When something odd happens, do not take the blame simply to downplay situations. When you are feeling low, intimidated, belittled, ignored, denied love, or respect, or attention, do not justify other’s actions, do not blame yourself, and do not enclose those emotions. You may decide to confront, or runaway… You may decide to forgive, or ignore… You may decide to stand for yourself, or for others undergoing same situations, or not… Not matter how strong one is on the inside, the emotions a parent or partner caused are real. One can chose to build imaginary braces to hold them together, but, they need to remember what happened, and try to understand why they feel this way… YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING YOURSELF or YOUR PARTNER, and YOU ARE ALONE.
WELL, OTHERS’ ACTIONS CAUSED DAMAGE TO YOUR SAFETY SHIELD, NOT ONLY YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING OTHER’S LOVE but as well, YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING THAT YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE and ARE CAPABLE OF LOVING!” #MOI Speak Up, if not for you, for those going through emotional pain! #Pain discussed is one among many, can you imagine how one could be feeling right now?!
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“I’m writing this post W2W, and only for women to read (as for men, feel free to peek, and surprise you lady with one of the below, as long as you can come back here, and tell us openly how she felt) funny? let’s have fun!
1. Good morning, my lady, queen of my heart! 2. Did I ever tell you how I admire the way you handle me?! 3. (Kiss her on the naked shoulder, and say) I just a flashback to the first time I saw you, how I wondered whether I can reach your heart! 4. (Give her an apple, bitten) We shared an apple but gained the tree (Wink) 5. (Bring breakfast in bed and …) I put together this movie of us, moments in pictures we spent together and words you said that made the man I am today… Let’s spend the morning in bed! 6. (Have a new dress hung on the closet with a note on your pillow) I will pick you up at 11:00 am, kids are taken care of, let us celebrate Women’s Day together 7. (The flower trick, wrist corsage) A unique flower on the wrist of the lady that will make my day different every morning, I love you in the morning… and every minute of the day 8. (Bring her a mini item of something you promised her) I will always fulfil my dream, this house is the first step towards the bigger one 9. (Speak up in public) On this day, I want the word to know, I am lucky to have you in my life. Honey, you changed my life and I cannot imagine my days without you 10. (Squeeze her truly and spend with her a day of actions not words, literally, mime the actions, start with a kiss, a squeeze on the back, direct her to the shower, have a dress hung for her, show her which lipstick you prefer, show her the day, take her to dinner, express your love, let her guess what you are saying, discuss memories, and so on…)
Ladies, W2W, which one of us does not like to be loved, and feel special, and be reminded of our value when we sink in our daily chores and tasks. I, personally, missed romance, and time made me look so strong, while on the inside, I could fall for the smallest acts. I reached a point of No-Trust, unfortunately, now when someone says the smallest word, and or act…, sad, I tent to disbelieve them; Yet, I know, and I am convinced that there is someone out there for everyone, whether, men or women, they are both worried and concerned about the trust issue, as pain, sometimes, it seals but never heals…
Gentlemen, make this day special, and let us give our relationship, whatever the status is, a renewal pass!
Happy International Women’s Day #IWD2020, let us celebrate this day, as romance should not disappear if we are calling for an equal world!” #MOI Cheers to the woman inside each one of us, and to the man that cherishes our role!
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change… Both available: Amazon: amazon.com link to both books Through the publishers: Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel? http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/…/…/where-is-my-angel.html
“A Saturday like no other… Well, a time of my life like no other, I woke up to an empty house! Exactly last Saturday, I realised the change. I don’t remember whether I shared with you in the past bits and pieces about my personal life, other than in my book WHERE IS MY ANGEL?, but let me brief you, I am a DW, no, not a car, but a Divorced Women, as my status. I don’t know why, I prefer to use single, I guess, there is something in the back of my mind poking me “Failed to Succeed my marriage”, and therefore I prefer to use the single and avoid to use divorced. Please, before you raise the red flag and judge me, I wrote my opinion about this specific point in my book, and since we are not discussing this issue now, all I will say, I prefer divorce a mill times on an unhealthy relationship. What bothers me I guess, and that is the reason why I capitalised only the F and S, and not the word marriage, I believe my marriage ended in a major failure and I hate not to succeed. Anyways, I am a DW and I have 2 beautiful daughters that are today almost 27+ and 25+. My eldest, Vanessa, is currently a doctor in her almost last year of specialisation. Vanessa was born independent, I always treated her with the “handle with care” way in terms of her opinion and decisions, because she has always been a person of her own, and preferred the I in the team, you know what I mean, at this stage she lives alone and has her own life. As for the youngest, Tiffany, a very sweet creature, an artist, the into fashion, luxury, and adventures.
As we are talking now, Tiffany just embarked on a new adventure like a week ago. Not the first time, Actually few years back she left for her Master’s degree in Europe, my life was a mess, then she came back, we stayed together for a couple of years, and now here we go again… but why this time is different? Well, since Monday, I have been waking up at night, and for a split of a second denying her absence, or in the morning with the intention to check on her as sleeping before I go to work. I guess, deep in my heart, I know this it it! I always wanted her to have this life, going corporate, and growing in business. I always wanted her to realise her true strength, and take charge of her life, I always feared, for both, life wouldn’t be perfect in terms of personal partnership as it had for me, therefore, I wanted them to be professionally/financially independent so they do not have to expect financial stability coming from others, I always wanted both to be strong on the market, and lean in the relation, as in the master in the business, and the soft part in the relation. Well, I guess, I got what I always wanted, and it is time for the ostrich to get its head out of the sand; it is time I stop being emotionally dependent on my daughter/s and move on with my own interest in life. I know, at one point in life, cutting the cord might seem difficult, but in reality, it is time to give both my daughters my blessings to enjoy their life, as for me, a new journey, I do realise change is difficult, but it is time…” #MOI Cheers to courage, to faith, dear daughter, I know you will success!
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change… Both available: Amazon: amazon.com link to both books Through the publishers: Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel? http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/…/…/where-is-my-angel.html
“New way of thinking… feel it, you will see it; believe it, you will live it! Because I believe, as we attract what we fear, we are definitely going to attract what we want! Complicated? no, if you train your mind to see prosperity, your body will open up to embrace positiveness! Try sitting in a room and film your facial reactions… think about fear, your facial muscles will retract, think about beauty, walking in a green field, sitting by a fireplace with a glass of wine, with the love of life… your facial muscles will relax and that is when people see happiness on your face and wonder about what is making you happy and giving you that comfort! Try it, believe it, live it… do you remember the statements, don’t be negative you will attract it, or when people say about a third party they have a black aura… this has to do with the unseen of the person, and how their presence affect their surroundings. In summary, stay positive, believe that you have the power to attract what you want, and start living a new life!”
#MOI I am only human, but my mind got me here!
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“I found myself this Holiday stretched between two extremes of emotions, extreme love & that is me, and extreme hatred, and definitely not me! I am a giving person, I love unconditionally, I give abundantly, and I promote peace naturally. I believe that love can revive a dead soul as mentioned in my book WHERE IS MY ANGEL?, I see giving as a changing step in the life of others around me, and I see that promoting peace shall eventually change the world, and twist people’s reaction, and eventually, their actions. I believe in communication skills, the root of my short stories book for children MOMMY, I AM A PACER!, I believe that any conflict could be solved when communicated, when discussed, with empathy, and rationalism, but mainly discussed and not ignored. But, I am sad, feeling this anger, and hatred, no, it is affecting my performance, nor my loving character, or my giving nature, or my peaceful nature, yet it is affecting my emotional status towards those who played an unfair role towards me! Why suddenly, no it was not sudden, I believe it has been a dormant feeling, that laid deep down, not dealt with or faced, I see myself having this feeling as I decided lately to express my grandeur(with all modesty) to myself, not selling myself cheap, in my eyes before others, as I believe, of myself, and see myself, as a successful achiever, full stop. When you know who you are, your potential, your true self, and admit it to yourself, you place yourself in a zero tolerance attitude towards mistreatment and belittlement. Why this anger and hatred though? If I know the facts, and all the strategies, that is what is bothering me, towards specific people? Well, I know, it is untreated emotions, I will not affect the person whom I am towards others, and will not jeopardize my nature, but yet, it brings tears to my broken heart towards a phase I need to mentalize! Now that I shared it with you, I hope you probably understand me, I try to empathize with those who wronged me, but will it ever mend my broken heart? In the past, I forgave those mentioned, but why not now? Dear God, I pray you help me manage my feelings, by replacing anger with peace to my heart, and hatred with love towards others, as I dislike my thoughts and feelings!” #MOI apologies for my sincerity
