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The letting go phase!

19 Saturday Dec 2020

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“The letting go phase is tough, let go through the breakdown…
Mother & Baby, when stopping the breastfeeding and feeling guilty for weaning the baby; and baby taking the time to adjust…
Mother & Toddler, going to the daycare, when both need that break and not able to let go…
Mother and child, when the child goes to school, and then again having difficulty adjusting…
Mother and adolescent, when the teenager wishes their parents would go invisible for a while, giving them room to spread their wings…
Mother and young adult, when the boyfriend and/or girlfriend pops on board, and then we as parent, want to take charge, and have them avoid any heartbreak…
Let’s involve the dad, parent and child, they go to college, and we look around, they want to choose the country, major, and life… when none needs our opinion much, they accept it or ask for it out of respect, but…

We accept all, swallow all, digest all, until one day, they come through that door, and ask that boyfriend or girlfriend, what do you think, and then, forget to look at us for consent, and we have to accept and expect more so we don’t lose them… yes that child exists no more, and had moved on and away… Life!”
#MOI wishing that child would teach me now how to let go!
Cheers to the course of life! love you my daughters!

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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#BeHeard & #SpeakUp

31 Friday Jul 2020

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“There are actions in life that scar forever, and few among many, they lead to impacting one’s future, resulting, and without one knowing, to instability in relationships…
Are you one of them? men or women?
Are you causing them? father or mother?
Are you denying them? son or daughter?
Are you not talking about them? partner?
Does your ego stand in the way of acknowledging emotional pain?
Well, let’s discuss few points…
Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not asking about you?
Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not looking for you?
Did you ever feel that a parent or partner is not standing for you?
Did you ever miss someone hugging you or holding your hand?
Did you ever feel that you were not supported irrespectively of any actions?
Did you ever cry in silence?

When you know there is a gap, you have to believe it.
When something odd happens, do not take the blame simply to downplay situations.
When you are feeling low, intimidated, belittled, ignored, denied love, or respect, or attention, do not justify other’s actions, do not blame yourself, and do not enclose those emotions.
You may decide to confront, or runaway…
You may decide to forgive, or ignore…
You may decide to stand for yourself, or for others undergoing same situations, or not…
Not matter how strong one is on the inside, the emotions a parent or partner caused are real.
One can chose to build imaginary braces to hold them together, but, they need to remember what happened, and try to understand why they feel this way… YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING YOURSELF or YOUR PARTNER, and YOU ARE ALONE.

WELL, OTHERS’ ACTIONS CAUSED DAMAGE TO YOUR SAFETY SHIELD,
NOT ONLY YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING OTHER’S LOVE but as well, YOU ARE NOT TRUSTING THAT YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE and ARE CAPABLE OF LOVING!”
#MOI Speak Up, if not for you, for those going through emotional pain!
#Pain discussed is one among many, can you imagine how one could be feeling right now?!

Author of
*Where is My Angel?
Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

*Mommy, I am a PACER!
Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available on this Amazon link: Badiaa Hiresh amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing link: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers link: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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The way I love you!

02 Friday Aug 2019

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“Praise them, spoil them, love them unconditionally, be there for them, let them know how highly you think of them… equally!”

#MOI The parent, Because your love as a parent shall be the difference in your child’s life!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

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Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!

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“Mommy, do you believe I can fly?”

30 Saturday Sep 2017

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“A peak at “Friends Are Special – The Story of Perseverance”…
Mommy, do you believe I can fly… A typical question by any child. And of course,Mom answered the typical answer every parent would say:
“Abigail – dearest, you can do anything you set your mind to!”
What my mom did not know is that I truly wanted to fly with my thoughts and actions in order to help Omar’s dog, Amber.
Book 1 in the series of shot stories of 5 that would help every child overcome the difficulties of childhood.
Be that parent, with empathy, that understands childhood, and show their child the way out.
Children, through Mommy, I Am a PACER, will co-illustrate with the author, express their feelings, and be the main change agent in their community!”
#MOI the Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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