#MOI & today’s thought of the day ”Smell the Roses & Blow out the Candles” Under the umbrella of communication and dealing with anger! Sharing a personal incident that happened last week.
“The <I do> thought is the dream of all girls, it starts at young age, it’s about the dress, the ring, the veil, the flowers, the music, the first dance, the cake, the crowd… It’s the vision of the prince, on the white horse, the kiss, the way he held my hand, the way he grabbed me on the dancing floor… Sometimes it goes beyond, to the dream of the house, the garden, the walk-in closet, the car… The girls grow, reality falls in, like darkness some of their nights become lightless, and like the thunders in the skies their dreams start turning foggy and their priorities changing…
With time, the dream starts turning into reality, and the glamourous I DO turns into LET’S BE TOGETHER. Simple, the dream of eternal love will dress a different gown, white it shall remain, but the prince becomes real, and the first dance will have a different music…
The difference between the dream of a young girl and the reality when grown, is that true love after the many heartbreaking experiences, that girl will learn that true love does not mean eternal peace, but rather standing by each other to reach it. We, people, men, and women, are different, but we all want love, a hand to hold when we share the pillow at night, and an I DO!”
#MOI When the dream becomes about the person and not the wedding, we can simply build a home instead of a house!
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
I do admit that I want Love, I do admit that I want to be loved, I do admit that I want to offer my love, But… do we dare, again!
At a specific age, we look at love differently, whether offered or received, we treat love differently. At a specific age, we reach a point of no shyness, we learn to speak up, to ask for what we want and what we need, and we learn to offer beyond our standard norm. At a specific age, we appreciate time, and start being appreciative of every step. At a specific age, we learn that love is physical, emotional, and attitude. At a specific age, we learn that the next one should have the know-how. At a specific age, we want to be treated the way we want, the way we deserve, and the way we like. At a specific age, we want love, again, our way.” #MOI Am I a woman or a man?
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“The continuity… Eventually, things will change, & hope you would like the new YOU. Let me tell you a short story, I was discussing that point with a friend of mine the other day… She was feeling anxious and sinking in her own life, that by the way did not change.
The people in our life are still the same, the people in our home are still the same, and the days rolling are still the same, but… the circumstances, the fear from the unknown, and the foggy tomorrow are not the same; additionally, we are not the same! We are living the uncertain, and that changes people, it makes us sink and bounce, it makes us cry and laugh, and it makes us fear happiness! We worry about our loved ones, we worry about their future, and we worry about our sanity! Are we still the same… no, we are changing, we are no longer the person we were at the beginning of the outbreak. & that is the continuity… the survival skills, the care for others’ pressure, and the care for self-concern, that is the change we have become! Despite my will, this pandemic made of me a new Person” #MOI the continuity…
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“I’m writing this post W2W, and only for women to read (as for men, feel free to peek, and surprise you lady with one of the below, as long as you can come back here, and tell us openly how she felt) funny? let’s have fun!
1. Good morning, my lady, queen of my heart! 2. Did I ever tell you how I admire the way you handle me?! 3. (Kiss her on the naked shoulder, and say) I just a flashback to the first time I saw you, how I wondered whether I can reach your heart! 4. (Give her an apple, bitten) We shared an apple but gained the tree (Wink) 5. (Bring breakfast in bed and …) I put together this movie of us, moments in pictures we spent together and words you said that made the man I am today… Let’s spend the morning in bed! 6. (Have a new dress hung on the closet with a note on your pillow) I will pick you up at 11:00 am, kids are taken care of, let us celebrate Women’s Day together 7. (The flower trick, wrist corsage) A unique flower on the wrist of the lady that will make my day different every morning, I love you in the morning… and every minute of the day 8. (Bring her a mini item of something you promised her) I will always fulfil my dream, this house is the first step towards the bigger one 9. (Speak up in public) On this day, I want the word to know, I am lucky to have you in my life. Honey, you changed my life and I cannot imagine my days without you 10. (Squeeze her truly and spend with her a day of actions not words, literally, mime the actions, start with a kiss, a squeeze on the back, direct her to the shower, have a dress hung for her, show her which lipstick you prefer, show her the day, take her to dinner, express your love, let her guess what you are saying, discuss memories, and so on…)
Ladies, W2W, which one of us does not like to be loved, and feel special, and be reminded of our value when we sink in our daily chores and tasks. I, personally, missed romance, and time made me look so strong, while on the inside, I could fall for the smallest acts. I reached a point of No-Trust, unfortunately, now when someone says the smallest word, and or act…, sad, I tent to disbelieve them; Yet, I know, and I am convinced that there is someone out there for everyone, whether, men or women, they are both worried and concerned about the trust issue, as pain, sometimes, it seals but never heals…
Gentlemen, make this day special, and let us give our relationship, whatever the status is, a renewal pass!
Happy International Women’s Day #IWD2020, let us celebrate this day, as romance should not disappear if we are calling for an equal world!” #MOI Cheers to the woman inside each one of us, and to the man that cherishes our role!
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change… Both available: Amazon: amazon.com link to both books Through the publishers: Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel? http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/…/…/where-is-my-angel.html
“I went to the market this evening and bought literally 2 items, cheese & cabbage. As I was standing in line, this older lady came, cut me off, and decided to pay before me.
Her daughter who is my age was juggling between cashiers, checking which one was faster, knowing they both cut me off.
My turn came, the cashier that was finishing a gentleman in front of us, looked at me and said, madam you were first! My answer was, it’s ok they must be in a rush to cut me off, please proceed with them. & without a thank you of any kind, they paid and left.
I paid, and went to my car, some people had blocked both of us. I waited like 15 seconds for the cars behind me to leave, while whoever was blocking them could not be found!”
Once upon a time, a child was born. Between the different events, that child learned that the end in sight is more important than the beginning. My story is not unique, maybe the sequence happening to one person is. I am every woman, every story behind closed doors, every marriage, and every company.This is the story of a woman born in Lebanon with an international view on life. After losing her mother at birth, being exiled to the States and experiencing family leaving her life, Badiaa developed an inner strength that has allowed her to cope with events that would have broken someone less strong.
Take Badiaa’s journey with her and discover truths about yourself and inspiration to take through your own life.
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
“New way of thinking… feel it, you will see it; believe it, you will live it! Because I believe, as we attract what we fear, we are definitely going to attract what we want! Complicated? no, if you train your mind to see prosperity, your body will open up to embrace positiveness! Try sitting in a room and film your facial reactions… think about fear, your facial muscles will retract, think about beauty, walking in a green field, sitting by a fireplace with a glass of wine, with the love of life… your facial muscles will relax and that is when people see happiness on your face and wonder about what is making you happy and giving you that comfort! Try it, believe it, live it… do you remember the statements, don’t be negative you will attract it, or when people say about a third party they have a black aura… this has to do with the unseen of the person, and how their presence affect their surroundings. In summary, stay positive, believe that you have the power to attract what you want, and start living a new life!”
#MOI I am only human, but my mind got me here!
Author of Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
