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So, I didn’t succeed…

17 Monday Oct 2022

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“So, I didn’t succeed in the relationship.
I failed to keep it together forever;
I failed to keep us under the same roof;
I failed to keep us happy as promised;
& I failed to remain together.

Yet, I do not see it as a failure!
I believe that, at times, we get involved in the wrong relationship; failing to step out is the non-successful part.
I believe success resides in a healthy and decent separation, whichever way the couple chooses the breakup to be; we cannot control yesterday’s actions, but we sure have a say in tomorrow’s!”

#MOI I did not succeed in keeping us together, but I did succeed in having a healthy & respectful split!

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Divorce… when nothing else matters!

09 Saturday Jan 2021

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“Divorce… When nothing else matters, we feel angry, numb, devastated, weak, enraged, deceived, raped, and much more!
The two extremes of feelings between relief, and knowing what we want, fear, and wondering whether we have exhausted every possibility to continue, will eventually lead to one phase, the emotional shock.

Not matter how long we wanted this freedom, what we ignore, and what no one ever told us, is that we are entering a dark tunnel of grief where we are mourning our self and life!
The betrayal by the person that promised us happiness, that promised to stand by us, that promised to love us unconditionally, and be there for us, that betrayal and unfulfillment of promises, not only lead to divorce but as well to us standing midway, mid-life, mid-stage, and wondering… forget the enraged phase when and where we vent out aloud, I was mistreated; listen deep to the questions:
What did I do wrong?
Am I not worthy of love?
Was it me?
and the most important question: Will I ever trust again?
Dear partners,
It is tough, but I promise you one thing, no one can stand for you, speak for you, and be you; the time will come when you would need to stand on your own feet, in your own shoes, and wipe your own tears; you can do it, I did!

Friends & Readers… I am a woman but this applies to men as well!”

#MOI the moment when my life stood still… am I over it?!

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When I decided the end, I was actually…

08 Friday Jan 2021

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“When I decided the end, I was actually planning a new beginning!

It is sad that girls at a young age, when they imagine the future, it is partly about love, the proposal, the wedding, the flowers… they dream, and at times, they plan… As I recall, I barely had that dream, I wanted to make someone of myself, I wanted a big family, I wanted to cook, I wanted to be the factory providing the beautiful product, I wanted to be a journalist, I wanted to tell the story!
All I did, back then, was write. At school, I wrote; at bedtime, I wrote in my diary; and my outings were writing at the beach…

So why I started with the statement, it is sad, because it is important to know at a young age, and it is important to tell our young girls, that, one day, when they stand at that crossroad, to decide on the future, the focus of the wedding, is rather the marriage, how to work on the unity, how to overcome obstacles, how to get used to live the couple successfully, and make a WE that was once an I, and how most importantly it is to invest in that wedding picture while making a home of the dream house!

Crossroads, we face them many times in life; with people, places, jobs, and state of mind… what matters is how we deal with them and perceive change.
Well, a topic deep at the heart of every step in our life, widely and honestly discussed heart to heart in my novel-biography Where is My Angel?”

#MOI there is a beginning for something every new day, make the best out of it!

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*Mommy, I am a PACER!
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How to get over your Ex, and row…

14 Sunday Jan 2018

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“How to get over your Ex and row them on a peaceful boat to clear your mind!
The center of interest in the big D, divorce, is and should be, freedom, peace, happiness, a new beginning, a new chapter, and simply, a life, & … despite which one of us called it over; Therefore, your next steps are expected to focus on your physical health, mental health, emotional health, social life, and BEING & FEELING ALIVE!
Few crucial mistakes we tend to do, and preferably should “annul”, even if gradually:

  • Stop thinking about them, in general, and in details, don’t get obsessed, and allow them to control your mind;
  • Stop talking about him/her, about the pain they caused, the emptiness you live;
  • When asked about him/her, answer he/she is my Ex; no detail is needed;
  • Move on, not easy, I know, but MOVE ON;
  • Cry in public, I don’t mean tears, I mean dance, laugh, walk your emotions outside
    the house… DO NOT SIT ALONE, DO NOT MOURN ALONE!
  • Smile, even if suffering, jealous, burning inside… Inner-pain is reflected on your face!

In summary, the Ex cannot be the center of the Future!
Ego aside, Sh**, it happens in every house, get a grip on YOUR life!
YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY! Live, Love, Laugh and remember the statement “Get back on the horse”. well, now I tell you, “GET THE HORSE BACK ON!” 🙂
#MOI, Not an expert but talking out of experience!

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