Statements: I miss you, I love the way you smile, You make me smile, I miss you when I’m with you, I love to wake up before you and watch you…
Actions to do: Give your full attention, Remember what matters, Celebrate small events, Offer to help with chores, Give a time out from duties, and time alone if you feel needed, Take care of things, Ask as if you mean it, Surprise them with a treat, Hug, kiss, and touch, Use only sweet words, Make memories together…”
“Divorce… When nothing else matters, we feel angry, numb, devastated, weak, enraged, deceived, raped, and much more! The two extremes of feelings between relief, and knowing what we want, fear, and wondering whether we have exhausted every possibility to continue, will eventually lead to one phase, the emotional shock.
Not matter how long we wanted this freedom, what we ignore, and what no one ever told us, is that we are entering a dark tunnel of grief where we are mourning our self and life! The betrayal by the person that promised us happiness, that promised to stand by us, that promised to love us unconditionally, and be there for us, that betrayal and unfulfillment of promises, not only lead to divorce but as well to us standing midway, mid-life, mid-stage, and wondering… forget the enraged phase when and where we vent out aloud, I was mistreated; listen deep to the questions: What did I do wrong? Am I not worthy of love? Was it me? and the most important question: Will I ever trust again? Dear partners, It is tough, but I promise you one thing, no one can stand for you, speak for you, and be you; the time will come when you would need to stand on your own feet, in your own shoes, and wipe your own tears; you can do it, I did!
Friends & Readers… I am a woman but this applies to men as well!”
#MOI the moment when my life stood still… am I over it?!
Author of *Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…