When tears try to trick you, trust this: nothing and no one deserves the weight of your breaking. Dry them, steady yourself, and seal the ducts.
#MOI Today’s lesson: If it costs your peace, it is already too expensive.
I am the author reminding you… It’s life, not a book; It’s a woman, not a character; It’s a reality & not a story!
I am the author; I don’t speak; I write. I write to inspire, to heal, and to share the experiences that shaped me.
Step into my books, meet the characters, and walk through their lives to witness how loss of control becomes the birthplace of power, how broken timelines stitch themselves into courage, and how every scar learns to speak.
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I am an Internationally Published Author, a Social Media Host, and the Broadcaster of “Let’s Grow Corporate Style.”
All my books, the ones I lived, learned from, and rose through, are gathered on my author page, waiting for you to explore, reflect, and grow with me.
Peace Purpose Program. After years of walking that path, I published the Peace Purpose Program, now available on Kindle for teachers and educators. https://a.co/d/6UM0jYR
Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices: Can broken hearts be mended?
Where Is My Angel? A testimony to the role of faith in my life.
Mommy, I Am a PACER! Because I believe children are the future and the change.
Does wounded pride cause pain? “Yes,” she replied. When I asked where it hurts, she said, “Everywhere.” When I asked when it hurts, she answered, “All the time.”
Psychological pain affects our health causing physical discomfort; between it’s not fair and I cannot accept it, she felt broken and helpless.
Life has its ups and downs, learn to look up when you are down, and remember you have the ability to bounce back and restore the puzzle of your life…
MOI & the story that wrote itself…
Check Mommy, I am a PACER! and learn about the values that can change the world…
Check Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices and learn from Ale and learn the difference between the life incidents and accidents that shape our individuality…
Check my biography Where is My Angel? and gain insight into the life and the tears we shed and wipe away…
I am the author, telling you if you cannot remember how precious life is; hopefully, these books will highlight some moments of your life and the strength in yourself and others.
& while reading, remind yourself; it’s life, not a book; it’s a woman, not a character; it’s reality & not a story!
Do you really want to know the reason behind the lack of trust… Do you really want to know why you always pull your hand away… Do you really want to know what makes you wake up crying… Do you really want to know who gave you that wound… Do you really want to know the truth…
About dormant wounds… sometimes it’s better not to wake the raging pain you had no control over; Cheers to the day dormant rages speak up, and the healing process starts!
#MOI Scars bleed forever, don’t let them hold you back!
“Don’t apologize if what you did was a reaction. Let others apologize for making you act differently!
Guess what the problem is, I agree, we do not promote ego, but those who were hurt, will feel be stabbed twice, once when they were initially hurt, and another, when they acted with a bigger heart and decided to fix the situation; not necessarily with an apology. It could be they simply decided not to hold a grudge.
What vexes me the most, we have to act as role model for our descendants and those younger and around us, especially when those who raised the red flag, go on and on, claiming their pain.
Anyway, it’s mostly a rhetorical conversation, we all lived it!
“When hurt, act… I did because the action was repeated, and the person that did, repeated it, disregarding the notice I gave regarding that specific action. If I tell you, I know for a fact how much that person loves me and cares about me, would you believe me… Well, this is the point of the discussion, why do those that love us hurt us? Is it pain that they want to cause, or believing they are protecting us… Ambiguous is the answer.
I do believe in respecting others’ space, feelings, and opinions. I believe that no one has the right to belittle or offend you. I insist on respecting one’s choices.
I am not saying, do not speak your point, if you feel it is needed, I am saying know-how is the answer.
In the world of relationships, communication comes first, and last. Good communication starts a relationship; bad communication ends a relationship. It is as simple as good versus bad. When it comes to hurting others, there are no grey shades, it is simply black versus white. Do not tell me I was sensitive, rather think, you were insensitive towards others’ feelings. Can we fix it, sure, with good intentions, and again, communication; can we ignore it, no, there is pain involved; can we forget it, well, it’s personal… but my personal experience says no.” #MOI Let’s fix it, today is fix it day!
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*Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices Book by #MOI, Could broken hearts be mended?
*Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
*Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
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