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A Saturday like no other…

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“A Saturday like no other…
Well, a time of my life like no other, I woke up to an empty house!
Exactly last Saturday, I realised the change.
I don’t remember whether I shared with you in the past bits and pieces about my personal life, other than in my book WHERE IS MY ANGEL?, but let me brief you, I am a DW, no, not a car, but a Divorced Women, as my status. I don’t know why, I prefer to use single, I guess, there is something in the back of my mind poking me “Failed to Succeed my marriage”, and therefore I prefer to use the single and avoid to use divorced. Please, before you raise the red flag and judge me, I wrote my opinion about this specific point in my book, and since we are not discussing this issue now, all I will say, I prefer divorce a mill times on an unhealthy relationship.
What bothers me I guess, and that is the reason why I capitalised only the F and S, and not the word marriage, I believe my marriage ended in a major failure and I hate not to succeed.
Anyways, I am a DW and I have 2 beautiful daughters that are today almost 27+ and 25+.
My eldest, Vanessa, is currently a doctor in her almost last year of specialisation. Vanessa was born independent, I always treated her with the “handle with care” way in terms of her opinion and decisions, because she has always been a person of her own, and preferred the I in the team, you know what I mean, at this stage she lives alone and has her own life.
As for the youngest, Tiffany, a very sweet creature, an artist, the into fashion, luxury, and adventures.

As we are talking now, Tiffany just embarked on a new adventure like a week ago. Not the first time, Actually few years back she left for her Master’s degree in Europe, my life was a mess, then she came back, we stayed together for a couple of years, and now here we go again… but why this time is different?
Well, since Monday, I have been waking up at night, and for a split of a second denying her absence, or in the morning with the intention to check on her as sleeping before I go to work. I guess, deep in my heart, I know this it it!
I always wanted her to have this life, going corporate, and growing in business. I always wanted her to realise her true strength, and take charge of her life, I always feared, for both, life wouldn’t be perfect in terms of personal partnership as it had for me, therefore, I wanted them to be professionally/financially independent so they do not have to expect financial stability coming from others, I always wanted both to be strong on the market, and lean in the relation, as in the master in the business, and the soft part in the relation.
Well, I guess, I got what I always wanted, and it is time for the ostrich to get its head out of the sand; it is time I stop being emotionally dependent on my daughter/s and move on with my own interest in life.
I know, at one point in life, cutting the cord might seem difficult, but in reality, it is time to give both my daughters my blessings to enjoy their life, as for me, a new journey, I do realise change is difficult, but it is time…”
#MOI Cheers to courage, to faith, dear daughter, I know you will success!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about my longing to live again
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
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Karma will speak for you…

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“I went to the market this evening and bought literally 2 items, cheese & cabbage. As I was standing in line, this older lady came, cut me off, and decided to pay before me.

Her daughter who is my age was juggling between cashiers, checking which one was faster, knowing they both cut me off.

My turn came, the cashier that was finishing a gentleman in front of us, looked at me and said, madam you were first! My answer was, it’s ok they must be in a rush to cut me off, please proceed with them. & without a thank you of any kind, they paid and left.

I paid, and went to my car, some people had blocked both of us. I waited like 15 seconds for the cars behind me to leave, while whoever was blocking them could not be found!”

#MOI #KARMA it will always speak for you!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/…/…/where-is-my-angel.html

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Refurbish your life!

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“Yes, refurbish your life! Do you know why?

Simply because you owe it to yourself!

There might be cracks on the wall, but you can hold it together!

The paint might be peeling, but you are creative enough to repaint it differently!

There might be holes, I am sure you can seal them!

There might be fallen walls, I trust enough you can restructure them!

There might be squeaking, cracks, fallen parts… just remember that you are the center of your life, and not the surroundings!

Restore Faith in yourself, you are the only capable person to do it!”

#MOI Author of

Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?

http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!

http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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I wish I can say innocent till proven guilty…

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“At times you feel that everyone is guilty…

And so true, guilty till proven innocent… Yes exactly!

I give a story to every face, a name to every face, a the worst part…. I connect the face to my past😭😭😭😭😭…

Yes, it is very true, l live in my own jail, I cannot get myself to ride the horse again…

I know one day I am going to wake up and see that someone has disappeared or pulled their hand away, again,so,

l am safe, behind my own bars…

But what if this one person is different, there are people out there that are innocent till proven guilty…”

#MOI

Author of

Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?

http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!

http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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There is always a door…

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“There is always a door, it’s always closed, initially, as it is meant to separate things, indoor from outdoor basically, contain a location as a limit or distance… but metaphorically it separates us today from us tomorrow!

That is the real door!

If you think about it, many fear touching the handle, many feel safe in their comfort zone that they reject the idea of leaving the cocoon and become a butterfly, many wonder what is on the other side while enjoying living the imaginative part, but only few challenge themselves to manage their way away, around, or through the door and embark on new soil, water, and air to test life from different perspectives.

Do you ever wonder what’s on the other side of that handle if you turn it? Well, it’s life, continuity, experience, more people crossing our paths, just another stop in our life!

My advice, no fear, cease every moment to learn something new, analyze occasionally, but conquer wholeheartedly!

Cheers to every sunset, as it is sunrise elsewhere!”

#MOI The conqueror not the wonderer

Author of

Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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While sleeping…

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“While sleeping…
I woke up this morning, I head to the bathroom to wash my face, I stood in front of the mirror, and here was the shock, there was something under my chin!
Oh my, oh my, what is this, I tried to rub it off, pull it back, pull it off… it was still there!
I stepped out, went to check on my daughter in her bed, she was no longer the tiny young daughter, I saw a fully developed young lady, on her way to independence, while the other one has no longer been in her room since a while, she has been fully independent, living alone, working for quite some time!
Well, I don’t know what happened, but yesterday I spent my day observing colleagues at work, hearing their stories, listening to their words carefully, but thinking about the unsaid, I saw more wrinkles, I saw white hair, I saw laughter, and concerns, I heard life!
The evening passed, I was thinking passively about life, but emotionally.
Did it ever happen to you? I guess when changes happen physically, empathy takes over with me, and I guess I live the changes with them from my own home, I guess that explains why I woke up this morning screaming and crying the dream of house change!
Well, I went back to my mirror, I guess while sleeping, time happened, and the good thing about it, we grow wrinkles, white hair, double chins, physical and emotional changes, but at least we are blessed with what we call life, to witness all changes!
God bless us all with a healthy and happy long life, let us all enjoy this gift!”
#MOI while sleeping, life happened!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
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My life, my thoughts!

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“I made it through, because to me, life was a survival choice!”

#MOI there were days I chose to live, & others days I feared my thoughts

I invite you to read my books… for some books will simply change your life!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
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Kids… they just break my ❤️

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“Kids … they just break my heart!

If you think you life as adult is tough, try to be in a child’s shoes, living the puberty changes, some they can control and others no, the beard, the voice, the belly, the hair, the period, the height, weight, the looks, height, weight… try facing the bully, the my friend or no friends, the pain, the tears…

I MEAN TRY REMEMBERING!

Were you ever bullied, were you ever the bully, or were you the bystander?

Each breaks my heart, the victim for understanding that being bullied is not their fault, they just happened to be at the place the wrong time; the bully for energizing on the pain they cause others, and being able to continue their life despite that; & last, the bystander who feels they have the right to watch silently, turning the blind eye on, and sealing their ears from hearing others’ pain snd scream for help!”

#MOI I sometimes wonder which one of the three will end up an emotional timed bomb in their community?!

I invite you to read MOMMY, I AM A PACER! alone first then with your child. Remember how you once felt, how your child feels now, and then pass them the 5 short stories, let them express their feelings following Abigail’s footsteps in being change agents in their community, and ambassadors of peace for the next generations!

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life
Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…
Both available:
Amazon: amazon.com link to both books
Through the publishers:
Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html
Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html
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Let us Invest in Love…

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‘Let us Invest in Love!
Let us discuss love openly, let us not be shy, let us not hide from reality…
You love her, tell her
You love her, show her
You love her, make her feel special
You love her, kiss her
You love her, let her feel it
You love her, hug her, say it with actions, fix her favorite coffee, attend her favorite romantic movie, surprise her with a flower
Do it for her…
& remind her of the first day you met, why you loved her, the first kiss, and the first bite of the apple!

Invest in love, invest in your relation, invest in your home…
Make every day feel like the first day…
As for us women, life is a two way street, we need to ensure the was back, we hold the magic wand, we hold the key to success, the right word at the right time… I know there are times where the street is a one way only, but let us try to dig a hole, big enough to invest in love before we bury life itself!”
#MOI I invite to read Chapter 7 in Where is My Angel?

Author of
Where is My Angel? Book by #MOI and Read about the role of Faith in my life

Mommy, I am a PACER! Book by #MOI because I believe that children are the future, the change…

Both available:

Amazon: amazon.com link to both books

Through the publishers:

Novum Publishing: Where is My Angel?
http://www.novum-publishing.co.uk/books/biography-politics-current-affairs/history-biography/where-is-my-angel.html

Dorrance Publishers: Mommy I Am a PACER!
http://www.dorrancebookstore.com/mommyiampacer.html

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