“Don’t look for visible perfection but find the hidden flaws. A statement that clearly roots any relationship.
At the child level, teach your child that a friend who speaks up and fights with you and for you is a friend worth the investment. Check Mommy, I Am a PACER, and follow grandpa’s steps with Abigail to help her restore her friendships.
At an adult level, we assume that visible perfection in friends is what we want, then we get disappointed. It is the misinterpretation of situations then we get hurt. I wonder whether Alexandra in Life’s Detours – Alexandra’s Choices describes this situation best with Robert or the other characters, but then again, as I always say it’s a life, not a book!
At the relationship level, we fall for visible perfection until we are choked with hidden flaws; we fall for the perfect vision we have built of a relationship until we trip on flaws that shake us… Are all flaws fixable? Are all flaws adjustable? Are all flaws acceptable? Well, it depends. Yes, I put full-stop punctuation. What matters is to find what is important to you and you can compromise, and what limits those flaws cannot cross, then you decide. I did in Where is My Angel?.
Every book has a story, a woman, a man, and a child; they were deceived, choked, and made it living their own way, as we all do!
Life is full of surprises, what matters is how we perceive them and keep on going irrelevant to the other’s perceptions and judgment! #MOI your author, and the one that speaks for you!
“Let’s discuss the components of a book… Events, people, memories, emotions, places, tragedies, losses, successes, & other added values make a book! Thinking about it, I can write a book about each component; each element is a story. Human life is impressive; more impressive is the pressure one can survive. Did you ever take notes about a single day or the events you witnessed during a day? Well, those are the components that make a book, or a life, our life! Impressive is our life, the people in it, and cheers to those who were part of it and we miss!” #MOI Components of a book, or rather life, and those we miss
“The best step you can take is to move on when you turn your back on yesterday… Can you? Can you let go? Do you believe in yourself enough to make it on your own? Let it be; don’t let the weight of the past pull you back; start your future today!
I did it, check my biography Where is My Angel?; Ale did it in Life’s Detours: Alexandra’s Choices; And many did… #MOI are you one of them? don’t look back; don’t waste your time looking back; curiosity will only kill the cat…
“How long are you planning to stand still & mourn a past you cannot control? Life does not wait Your life does not wait & tomorrow does not wait Find it; it’s inside you; it’s called courage!” #MOI, I am the author, sharing my experience & telling you…
it’s a life, not a book; it’s a woman, not a character; it’s a reality & not a story! Read the books, and get inspired.
“Because I see things from different perspectives… When I use different angles to look around, I see beauty, I see goodness… All you have to do is filter your field of vision!”
#MOI it is always about purity, don’t let the world change you! Blessed October to you All!
“If you believe what I believe, yes, it’s never an end. Fight for the alive feeling; fight for love; fight for justice; & mostly, fight for your happiness!”
#MOI I believe you deserve to live the beauty of life!
“Nothing heals a wound like turning the pages of a book and sealing the cover… I wish! Actually, my experience says, despite therapy, time, and change, the pain will pop up to the surface when we find ourselves in similar situations, to facing the same incidents with other people, even if the memory was dormant and isolated, that is the sad part. & as I always say, the victim of abuse, any form of it, will not heal, until they feel safe at the crime scene. Despite, I tell you, at a specific point in life, turn the book’s pages and seal the cover!” #MOI I decide when it’s time to face the past.
The main question in Life’s Detours: Alexandra’s Choices Check the book on MY AMAZON PAGE
What are your thoughts? You don’t always need to know where you are heading; sometimes, you only need faith to hop!
It is a quality I have. I call it quality, others call it recklessness. I always made a home of any house I lived in; I made a life of different locations I lived. I found love everywhere; love to me was boosting energy and not the final destination. My goal was to make myself, to have my name listed somewhere; my goal was to have the echo of my name mentioned.
Am I done? The day is still young, and age is just a number.
Those were my thoughts, yesternight, 9:23 PM, inspired by the events of the day & life, my biography, & my books. #MOI all I can say: Embrace the unknown with HIS grace, wherever the path takes you!
THE AUTHOR, I TALK YOUR LANGUAGE, SAY YOUR WORDS, & KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
“There is no time lost unless we don’t learn from every moment! A statement I wrote in 2014, on this day, after an emotional, personal, and financial crash, right after my divorce on November 11, 2011.
& who would say things were not correlating and happening to me, and to me only; I used to look around and wonder whether I was the only person there receiving those kicks; honestly, that is how it felt.
I recall the crash, the tears I had no strength to wipe, and silent screams… I recall all I wrote in my biography because that was the rock bottom that launched it!
I recall the pain when I was writing, I recall the anger, and then I saw the light, hope, and peace, and then I read all I have achieved and remembered and told myself “There is no time lost unless we don’t learn from every moment!”. Only God knows my strength, I thank HIM dearly for being where I am today.”
#MOI the author & the woman, allow me to tell you, if you haven’t read my biography, trust me, grab a copy; it will empower you and remind you of your hidden strength!
Where is My Angel? Written and published November 10, 2015, after the crash!