“I was awarded a certificate for Empathy, as much as I loved knowing in advance the future of a feeling, trust me, this made me sound like the person that pulled back first!
Knowing the outcome of a relationship, turned off the efforts to make things happen, and lately, when they tried to engage virtually, forgetting ethics and manners of approaching a woman, made me a wild cat, defending women as if I am protecting their grounds from future attempts.
He contacted me yesterday with all audacity, wishing me Happy Valentine’s Day in a picture via WhatsApp. Here was my answer: ***Sorry Not romantic enough this is the time when I hate technology***
Please, you all, tell me what you think, but before you judge me, hear my side of the story! He calls occasionally wanting a video chat, very ethical, but I know it is simply to check whether I look like my picture… I gave it to him! He tells me those stories about him being the king of the skies… I gave it to him! He tried once taking the conversation unethically… I did not give it to him! He tells me he is coming to Beirut, and wanting to see me, and then he never does… I still gave it to him, pretending to believe him!
The conversation started in 2018, but went on to the next level via WhatsApp Jan 24. 2021. & until this day, he is still busy!
Sorry my dear, I was not born to entertain you, and on Valentine’s I expect a box of chocolate to eat, and a rose to smell… where are your manners? you know I live in Beirut, give my number to a flower shop or a confiserie, and let them handle the rest… “
#MOI the way to a woman’s heart, is to know where to touch her, and definitely, it is not her dignity! On behalf of all of women out there, I know how it feels!
“There is no such thing as electronically-Romantic! Get off your screen & make it happen…” Happy Valentine’s Day
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#MOI the author behind the books & the woman that knows how it feels!
About the author: I write to inspire others, I always say: Do not read my story, find yours within the lines!
It’s a life, not a book… It’s a woman, not a character… It’s reality, not a story… Get inspired, Stand again, You are not alone! ———->slide right for the books I am proud to have published 🥰🥰 . . . .
“I am launching the arrows of love your way… Hello Valentine! May the arrow of love hit you hard on this day… May it surprise you with a new way… May it open new doorway… & may it show you love in a different way!
Did you know that love has many faces… Did you know that love can change the way you look at things… Did you know that love has invisible powers… Did you know that love has health benefits…
Well, that being said, may love strike you so hard, and knock you off your feet… I would open the door this day and see the world in a more loving way!
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“Is there a color for love… Well, you are so right, there is! As much as it’s invisible, it’s the most shining color… As much as it’s transparent, it’s the most vibrant color… It shines in the darkness, and better, no one can miss a woman in love… Did you ever feel the color of love? we try it, wear it, live it… Dare to ride that horse again, as, for you Mr. Gentleman, when was the last time for being the reason behind that color!” #MOI let’s shake the romantic jar for Valentine… Let’s be the reason behind that smile!
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***Once upon a time, a child was born. Between the different events, that child learned that the end in sight is more important than the beginning. My story is not unique, maybe the sequence happening to one person is. I am every woman, every story behind closed doors, every marriage, and every company. This is the story of a woman born in Lebanon with an international view on life. After losing her mother at birth, being exiled to the States and experiencing family leaving her life, Badiaa developed an inner strength that has allowed her to cope with events that would have broken someone less strong. Take Badiaa’s journey with her and discover truths about yourself and inspiration to take through your own life.***
#MOI All I can say, if I had survived and succeeded, you can!
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***I don’t know how to launch from here. I’ve reached a point where all I have is myself. I look around, and I see people smiling. I look at them, and I smile in return. Honestly, I don’t know why I smile; all I know is that my smile got me here. My personality led me to today’s outcome, and with no regrets, I am looking back, trying to understand.
This book tells many stories, but basically, it is the story of one woman. It is the “What if?” story that every woman tells herself. What if I had taken the other route the day I stood at the crossroad and wondered which way to go? The answer, of course, is uncertain.***
What if I had taken the other route… What if I had listened to my parents… What if I had stopped dreaming… What if I had not fallen in love… What if I had not chosen…
A question and the opening of my book LIFE’S DETOURS, ALEXANDRA’S CHOICES, a question from my life, and a question from yours… How many times, in life, we ask ourselves, what if… guess what, sometimes I ask myself what if had spoken…” #MOI Our life in a moment!
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Hi Badiaa Hiresh, thank you for agreeing to this interview.
Oltobooks : Tell us a little about yourself and your background? Badiaa Hiresh : Badiaa Hiresh was born in Lebanon in 1964 where she eventually lived and worked, raising her two daughters Vanessa and Tiffany. Badiaa also spent time in the USA after surviving the bitterness of the Lebanese Civil War, which gives her a unique international perspective on her home country. After working as an accountant and manager for the family jewelry business, Badiaa found herself in the field of education, helping to start a school. As well as writing, Badiaa is an advocate for peace, spending many years as a Peace Coordinator. Badiaa, the child born to a painful beginning, dreamed, and reached International by publishing three books, Where Is My Angel?; Mommy, I Am A PACER; & Life’s Detours, Alexandra’s Choices.
Oltobooks : What are your ambitions for your writing career? Badiaa Hiresh : To inspire readers and change their life, and see my books on the big screen.
Oltobooks : When did you decide to become a writer? Badiaa Hiresh : I wrote since I could think and hold a pen. Having lost my mom at birth, made me write to her in my mind, and speak to her to feel safe; and then came my diary.
Oltobooks : Why do you write? Badiaa Hiresh : The topics I write about touch upon reality. I want to heal the world from pain, I want people to get over their issues and deal with them and prevent them through actions.
Oltobooks : What made you decide to sit down and actually start something? Badiaa Hiresh : I always had that passion and imagination. When I was in Grade 2 I won the reading award and I always knew and wanted to write. So what made me decide to sit down and actually start something, well, imagine you are at school event, all mothers are there, and your mother’s seat is empty… so you fill the blank of the seats, events, life moments, etc… with words.
Oltobooks : Where do your ideas come from? Badiaa Hiresh : From real life events, personal and those I lived, and witnessed.
Oltobooks : What is the hardest thing about writing? Badiaa Hiresh : The hardest thing about writing is writing about yourself, and the decision of how much to say!
Oltobooks : What is the easiest thing about writing? Badiaa Hiresh : The easiest thing about writing is the process itself, at least to me. Once I start, I keep on writing, no planning, no mapping, just words and ideas flowing!
Oltobooks : If this book is part of a series, tell us a little about it? Badiaa Hiresh : Where is My Angel? my biography Once upon a time, a child was born. Between the different events, that child learned that the end in sight is more important than the beginning. My story is not unique, maybe the sequence happening to one person is. I am every woman, every story behind closed doors, every marriage, and every company. This is the story of a woman born in Lebanon with an international view on life. After losing her mother at birth, being exiled to the States and experiencing family leaving her life, Badiaa developed an inner strength that has allowed her to cope with events that would have broken someone less strong. With time, she learned to stand alone. She learned about the importance of a smile, she learned about the steps towards happiness, she learned about true friendship, she learned about inner-peace, she learned about what makes a family, and additionally, she learned to differentiate between fate and destiny. Fate came with her birth, but she knew that destiny was in her own hands. Mommy, I Am a PACER: Meet Abigail. Abigail is a girl who’s made a difference in her community by becoming a PACER, but what is a PACER? A PACER is a person who exhibits perseverance, agility, clarity, empathy, and respect. In this collection of short stories, each book represents one of the letters of the word PACER and its attributed characteristics. Join Abigail as she perseveres in welcoming new members into her community, demonstrates her ability to make quick and successful decisions, learns to resolve conflicts by talking openly and honestly with others, and so much more! Mommy, I’m a PACER encourages children to adopt the attitude of a PACER and teaches them how to interact with others and react positively to many different day-to-day situations. Life’s Detours, Alexandra’s Choices This story is about women and for women. Can broken hearts be mended? Alexandra is a dreamer, the youngest child of a large, reserved family. She longs to escape her small-town life and begins a secret life when she is nearly sixteen, singing at a small pub in the next town over. Her parents find out and give her a choice: stop singing or leave home. She leaves and soon finds herself involved with a much older man. When she discovers she is pregnant, however, her entire life changes once more. She sets out on a journey to a big city, determined to make her own choices and find her dreams, regardless of the challenges she faces. Between the life chosen for us and that we chose, we learn lessons that we forget with time. We end up sinking, derail from the right path, and then miss opportunities as we dread embarking on new waves, thanks to the depth of the wounds caused by those closest to us. But when we feel most disappointed in ourselves, we must be strong and remember we deserve happiness, justice, and success. This novel follows the life and journey of a young woman facing an unexpected pregnancy without support from anyone and choosing to chase her dreams anyway.
Oltobooks : What are your thoughts on writing a book series? Badiaa Hiresh : I love it, I did in the 5 short stories of Mommy, I AM a PACER, it connects you with the characters.
Oltobooks : What is your favourite positive saying? Badiaa Hiresh : Nothing will change until the day you take the first step. You are not alone!
Oltobooks : Where can you see yourself in 5 years’ time? Badiaa Hiresh : Watching one of my books on the big screen, and in inspiration talks.
Oltobooks : What advice would you give to your younger self? Badiaa Hiresh : Keep your diary at your fingertips and document your life!
“Will you be my #Valentine? It all starts with the way you ask…& remember many are too shy to ask, so take the first step,a step can lead to a whole new level!” #MOI Did you read my books? Well, Love always wins!
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